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Thought Awareness Check-In—Reframe Your Inner Dialogue

Jul 31, 2025 | Somatic Experiencing, Weekly Blog

We all have an inner dialogue that runs in the background of our minds. Sometimes, it’s encouraging and positive, like a coach cheering us on. Other times, it can be more critical, like a demanding referee calling out every little mistake. The way we engage with our thoughts directly affects how we feel, and just like a sports team needs to stay focused and in sync, our thoughts need to be clear, kind, and aligned with our values to stay mentally strong. Somatic therapy—rooted in body awareness—helps us tune into how our thoughts show up physically in our bodies, giving us a chance to realign, reset, and nurture ourselves.

Imagine your mind is like a radio station, constantly playing a stream of thoughts, both helpful and unhelpful. If the station is tuned to static or negative thoughts, it can feel like you’re hearing an endless loop of criticism, doubt, or overwhelm. But with the right tools, like the mindfulness practices in somatic therapy, you can “tune” the station to a frequency that’s more supportive and calming. Instead of focusing on the disruptive static, you can dial into a message of self-compassion and encouragement.

Take a moment to pause and listen to the thoughts running through your mind. Are they kind and supportive, or are they more like a harsh critic pointing out every flaw? Our thoughts can shape our emotions, and if we allow ourselves to spiral into negative thinking, it can create tension in the body—tight shoulders, a clenched jaw, or shallow breathing. Recognizing these patterns in your mind and body is the first step toward shifting your inner dialogue to something more empowering.

In somatic therapy, we learn that our bodies are deeply connected to our thoughts. If you notice physical tension, it could be a sign that your thoughts are overwhelmed or critical. This is where the practice of shifting your thoughts can make a significant impact. Just like tuning a radio to a clearer station, you can shift your inner dialogue by consciously choosing more supportive and compassionate thoughts.

Try asking yourself these journal questions to help you become more aware of your thoughts and gently shift your mindset:
 🎧 What thoughts have been running through my mind today? Are they positive and empowering, or heavy and overwhelming?
 🎧 How do these thoughts show up in my body? Am I holding tension or discomfort somewhere?
 🎧 What simple affirmation can I use to shift my thoughts to a more supportive and compassionate place?

For example, try repeating to yourself: “I am doing my best, and that is enough.” This simple affirmation can help you reframe your thoughts and create a sense of calm and self-acceptance. By practicing thought awareness and choosing to shift your perspective, you create space for more peace and self-compassion. It’s not about stopping negative thoughts completely—it’s about recognizing them, understanding their impact, and shifting them with kindness and understanding.

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I´m Shawna Leighton

At the heart of my work as a trauma therapist is the belief that every individual holds within them hidden gems—unique experiences, talents, and stories waiting to be discovered.

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